Single girl status!

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Sometimes i miss my girls but God they can be annoying at times. We skype every week and half the time the conversations are about their boyfriends. Now i'm not that bitter single friend that I'm sure we all have but it just gets annoying. I mention how bored i get when they start yapping about their guys, they get on my case about finding the right one. I have one hang out spot in this city, I'm there every weekend so I'm sure I won't be finding my Mr right soon, not that I want to. Anyway the reason for this post. I was talking to my friends a while ago and again the topic about boys came up, as usual I had to tell them to just shut the fudge up!!(there really isn't any nicer way to put it).
If it's not setting me up on dates it's annoying me about being more social and finding that one guy. I say why settle for one when I can have ten you know? Nah I'm kidding. I guess I just want them to understand that I am perfectly fine being alone, I like this me time I have right now and I am in no hurry to feel up a void that i'm not quite sure is empty. I really am too young to be thinking about serious, I'm barely twenty for crying out loud. I think right now I'm at a point in my life that I don't want a boyfriend just because they all have boyfriends, I don't need a new toy, I'm okay the way I am. Single. I believe that God made someone for everyone out there and my Mr right is somewhere working on himself just like I have to work on me and my faith. Might take ten or twenty years but it'll be worth the wait. Yea I've had my heart broken but it's part of life, what you do to recover from that is what really matters. When I'm done working on me, I'm sure the man upstairs will have the right one for me so yes I believe my time will come but for now I party like a rockstar, take over this city like a real spartan and just rep that single girl status.

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