Love the skin you're in!

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I know I've talked about this before but I don't care I will keep talking till it stops. This is just a rant so stay with me aha. So someone called me ugly and fat today and I'm not going to lie if it was back in the day I would probably have been offended. Now it just makes me angry. It's people like you that make me ashamed of being a woman sometimes. I mean I'm nineteen and you're twenty-three what business do you have comparing us two? You might be older but I am probably a better person than you will ever be. Please help me understand here, what is your definition of pretty? Did calling me ugly make you any prettier? Did calling me fat make you any skinnier? After saying that to me how did it make you feel? Are you happy with yourself now? I feel nothing but sadness for people like you.

I mean just because someone does not fit a certain image of what they should be in your mind does not mean they should be that image. We all have different definitions of pretty or ugly or fat or skinny but at the end of the day what does it matter? We set boundaries for ourselves why? Calling someone anorexic is as bad as calling someone fat. Sometimes our words hurt people whether it's intentionally or unintentionally and then we go about our business and forget about the people we've left behind hurting inside. Every morning stop for a minute and just look at yourself in the mirror. Society might have it's own mentality of what or who we should be but I say fuck society be your own person, love the skin you're in and just be fabulous my dear spartans. To the lady that called me those ugly names I am not mad at you at all, I'm ashamed for you! Wash your mouth before you go to sleep today. Maybe you've forgotten the post I wrote a while ago but honey I am gorgeous, I am nowhere near fat, I have never been nor will I ever be fat! I have all the curves in all the right places mami and I thank my parents for making this fine piece of art aha. I love myself and those words don't exist in my dictionary.
 

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  1. Anonymous4 June 2015 at 15:19

    Beauty comes from within. Not what you look like. Its how you present yourself. Confident women love their curves and so do real men.

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