You ain't about that life!

If you ain't about that life then don't sign up for it! You want to be in a relationship and act like you're single? It doesn't work like that! Stop playing with people's feelings. I think people don't realize that breaking someone's heart is way deeper than any of us can ever imagine. You break that person's heart, they end up beating themselves up for what? Being loyal to you when you're the one that couldn't deliver? You mess with their feelings making that heart feel like those feelings are real. You promise someone the world then leave them with nothing? You can't say you're "different" when you're not. What if the heart actually believes you? Don't promise anyone anything if you can't deliver because broken promises lead to disappointments. You destroy their out look on love, ever wonder where trust issues come from? Being played and being made a fool off. Like I said if you ain't about that life then please step aside!

What I don't get is why some people force their feelings because you don't go from loving someone to not having any feelings for that person at all. It's not a light switch you can't turn it on and off whenever you feel like it, you either loved them from the start or you never did. Black and white that's how I see it. Stop deceiving people and stop being selfish. If you don't mean it, don't say it. "I'd rather you hurt me with the truth than comfort me with a lie." If you don't feel anything for me don't force it, if you're not ready to be the person I want you to be, don't force it either!
Personally I would rather be by myself than mislead someone because time is precious to all of us and who knows maybe by lying to that person and dragging them along you're stopping them from being with a heart that'll love them and actually be the kind of person they need. If you ain't about that life don't waste any one's time, stop blocking the traffic because i'm sure there's someone else ready to step up and be the person you don't want to be!