YOU MAD?

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" What you think about me is irrelevant. Look deeper, harder, go on...What do you see? Your reflection of yourself when you look in the mirror?"- Samuel Soto. So I am one of those people that are fiercely loyal, you come after a friend or someone I really care about I cannot let it go. I have no respect for people that gossip, spread lies or talk smack about someone they don't even know. It's not about haters hating or "bitches" being well bitches (excuse my French), I honestly think it has something to do with ones self-esteem. You spend half your time gossiping, talking down on someone what's it going to do for you? How about you spend that time trying to solve world hunger or doing something productive with your life? I mean I know everyone is human but that's no excuse. Make sure you're perfect/sin free before you start trying to find all the flaws in someone else and show them off to the world.

"Mind over matter, I don't mind and you don't matter" I live by that! There will be people that just don't like you. What are you doing? Who are you dating? Like they want to know everything going on in your life, you don't need their stamp of approval, you don't need their go ahead. Do it any way, you will never please them anyway so to hell with all of them. I have heard a lot of things about me, sometimes it surprises me how people that don't even know me know a lot more about me than myself or my close friends. I used to care back in the day but now you know what? If you are not family or a close friend then your opinion about me is really irrelevant. If I do not talk to you, you can take your opinions and thoughts and shove them where the sun don't shine. You can choose to trim yourself and "lay low", keep parts of you hidden but who knows maybe by doing that you're killing everything that's special about you. Don't ever let anyone dull your sparkle! One thing I learnt is that people will always talk, you have to find the strength to look past what they say and move on with your life. What they say of you says more of them than yourself!

Of course i can't be done until i give my girl a S/O for always inspiring me. Go watch her vlog!!! http://youtu.be/UUKLcOcpuXU

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