Official but UNofficial ?

The most common thing that's going on these days with out generation is the issue about commitment or lack off. With guys they can't make a commitment, they just want to reap the reward, they want to milk the cow before making a down payment and just the mention of a family one day makes them turn their backs and RUN. Girls crave commitment, contentment, they want to settle down so we don't understand why it would be hard for a guy to just make it official. I mean if ya'll have an agreement Then hey whatever floats your boat, whatever pings your pong, whatever blows your skirt up, literally lol. Now I'm going to move on to how girls commit before he even asks. I set up my friends a couple of weeks ago and they seem to be in love right now or in like with a capital L. Honestly I think they both have commitment phobia but who doesn't sometimes right? Their situation is perfect though because they live three hours away from each other. There's a quote that goes " you know she's official when she's unofficial but still loyal." If I was a guy I'd prey on all those innocent girls that live by this and that's what happens. I don't want my girl to be loyal because he still hasn't made a down payment and yet he's already trying to milk the cow. This post is not just about cows, milk and down payments though. So they talk everyday, they are getting along more than fine BUT he still hasn't asked her the first bug question that's gonna lead me to start planning their wedding lol. We're girls that's what we do when we're bored, I'm already expecting to have the godmother rights, Maid of Honour role, confidante role, and the likes you know how it is. Kind of went off topic but back to what I was saying. I know it's only been a few weeks but we girls get attached and once we get attached we're fiercely loyal. My girl went out last night and she was piss drunk but she still pushed guys away and I'm not saying she's usually a slut because she's not, never been and never will be. I'm saying she's a keeper. She's attached now she's loyal. I talked to her this morning and she said he'd given her a very very strong like potion aha. Now I say it's about that time he paid up, the down payment is very much needed!!! He's either in or out now because so far he's done all the right things, said all the right words and he's gots to step it up. Now for my parting words. Ladies, if a man hasn't made your relationship OFFICIAL, he doesn't deserve a second of your loyalty, and you can be damn sure you aren't getting a second of his either. I think the reason you will ALWAYS see more women than men with relationship statuses claiming "it's complicated" is because it's never really that complicated to men. Either we're together or we're NOT together. I talked to one of any guy friends and he thinks women who only believe in DATING one man at a time are ridiculous and only hurting themselves but then again I always say titles are as strong as you make them.