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Less Thirst more Sincerity and Logic!

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Thirsty: the most over used word in popular culture! He calls you beautiful, he's thirsty. He says he wants to make you his wife, he's still thirsty. He says he wants to sleep with you after he clearly sees your half naked pictures? I mean at that point please call him thirsty and call yourself a thirst trap in the process. You can't be a thirst trap then complain about how you can't find a good guy after. Don't get me wrong there still are thirsty guys out there and we should all try to help them when we can, like give them a gallon of water to quench that thirst maybe? There's also some nice guys out there that get thrown in the "thirsty" category simply because girls these days can not tell the difference between a good guy and a thirsty guy. You can't go around calling every single guy thirsty then complain about not finding the right one how the hell are you going to find him when you won't even given one a chance! If...

Let's practice Radical Self Love!

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"Light skin is the right skin." I mean if Consequence said it then by gods we should all be light skinned. I don't think anyone wants to have the wrong shade of black,  although who ever said light skin was the right skin, other than rappers and the media of course. Bleaching, whitening, lightening. Whatever you want to call it, it's all the same. During my childhood, I played with white Barbie dolls. We were all exposed to the Euro centric standards of beauty from a young age. I never liked my hair curly or braided, I wanted my hair straightened all the time if I could. Now that I'm older I love my natural fro but I remember always wanting to perm my hair, keep in mind my hair is naturally soft so I probably looked like a wet cat with that perm on, never the less I still wanted it because that's what all the blonde's with straight hair and blue eyes on TV looked like. Despite all this I don't remember EVER hating my skin colour. My skin tone is and al...